monthly's february

in an effort to contain my friendships and not let it bleed in to what could be a horrid mess of work, priorities and social life - A and i have chosen to do what we call a "monthly." in january we did dinner at bohemian, the very chic and awesome japanese restaurant that is invite only. we were invited.

for february A and i decided on dinner at gascogne and tennesse william's clothes for a summer hotel. it was a bad idea to do a dinner and a show because naturally we lost track of time and ended up an hour late for the show.

[although we expected the actors and ushers to be considerate and turn a blind eye to our blatant artiste insulting behavior, it became increasingly obvious that our good manners and charm just wasn't working at the table.]

so no williams for us tonight. bad girls, very very bad girls.

gascogne, the french restaurant we went to however was a different story. a perfect get-away in the middle of chelsea with amazing food and scrumptious wait staff. both A and i spent the evening ogling, in turns obviously at the man who spoke french and got us food.

i have reached the grand conclusion that boundaries are an amazing thing. it allows you to explore, within the confines of what must be considered polite, the length and breadth of your relationship. for me, it gives me the time and space to let loose... without letting loose forever. the night ends and another month begins.